September 10, 2012

I'm getting bullied, give me advice!


Hiya, Martyna here. I'm SO sorry I haven't been posting a lot lately, I've been so busy with my blog and homework. Anyway, in this post I need advice, I'm getting bullied, as usual. I get bullied like 90% of the time!

Anyway, so this boy has been telling almost everyone in the school that it was ME who stole the teachers wallet. I mean, seriously? Now, my friends are against me, I spend the whole lunch break with everyone laughing at me. I don't get it. How could he be THIS cruel? He's gotten me into enough trouble already in the past, I don't like this. Now, I'm getting blamed on almost everything. Okay, so let me tell you one thing, this is what happened today at school.

*I knock my water bottle over accidently, because I'm so scared about whats going to happen*
Me: Oh no!
Boy: Aw, is clumsy girl crying! Haha
-Everyone in class laughs-
Me: What? No, I'm not crying. Stop being so immature!
Boy: Haha! Little girl sticking up for herself!
-My FRIENDS laugh this time-
Me: STOP! Stop lieing and making things up. It was NOT me who stole the wallet! I bet you did, you... You(I tried to swear, but I knew I shouldn't, So I didn't). UGHHHH!!! (I screamed so loudly)
Boy: HAHAHAHAH! Trying to blame it on me, are we? Loser. You know you did it!!

A few seconds after, I actually screamed and got so out of control that I punched him. The teacher got me into so much trouble. Nobody will understand me. My parents are OBVIOUSLY on the teachers side. Oh god! I don't know what to do. I'm scared. Please, help me! Give me advice!

Please, I need help. I'd appriciate advice.


Anonymous said...

it's kayci---
try to maybe ignore him, and just say whatever to anything he says, or pretend he's not there. If you're a good kid i'm sure you shouldn't worry about getting in trouble for the wallet. honestly, this boy sounds like he likes you. Just relax, and talk to your erm....guidance counselor? whatever you call them in the uk!

Martyna/Starbuster15✿◕ ‿ ◕✿ said...

Wow, thanks Kayci! And no, he hates me. He's hated me for the past 5 years. He's hated me since I was 7! And I'm not a good kid, I usually get into trouble a lot :L But right now, I'm focusing on studying because of people bullying me. Now, I'm not that much of a "bad" kid.

Thanks so much Kayci, your really kind. At least you care.(:

Zozo Martyna :)

Martyna/Starbuster15✿◕ ‿ ◕✿ said...

I mean Xoxo. :P

LaLaLina said...

Well, here is my advice. First, tell this to your parents:
Oh, so now you don't trust your own doughtier?

The next thing the boy says/blames you for say:
Oh, so I did that too? I didn't realize I was so busy lately..!

*Don't punch him. From now on, be the cold blooded girl. As they start laughing at you, ignore them completely! AND I MEAN NOT EVEN A GLANCE AT THEM! Let God/Karma do he rest. If you didn't steal anything, you have no one/nothing to fear.

You must be cool! VERY COOL! COOL IN VERY WAY, from cool-emotionless, to cool-awesome!

If some provocateur comes to you ignore him or say "oh shut up" coldly.
Don't show fear or any other emotion, that is what I learnt from my last bullying. Just be a good student. Get in a good university and etc... One day, when you find yourself in success, you will whisper "karma......" to yourself.

In case the guy seeks revenge (i'm pretty sure you'll get beat up sometime) be ready. I took youtube self defense lessons. My biggest defense is the Ba Gua Zhang circle walk. It looks cool, and fancy, and protective!

Good luck,

p.s. Sorry i'm inactive Kayci, I'm preoccupied with school! :O

Martyna/Starbuster15✿◕ ‿ ◕✿ said...

Wow guys! Thanks, this helped!(: Your advice is amazing!! Sorry I didn't comment yesterday when I read yours Lina, but I was shaking :/ Thanks though, both of you! :) Your so kind.

Xoxo Martyna

Anonymous said...

How did it go?

That is totally fine-to shake. I have the times after school (I don't get bullied, I just have other reasons), when I come home silently, and go to the safest place of all: My shower, and I could finally cry. And that's what I do. I cry my eyeballs out. No, I don't PMS, but I always feel ugly, and I'm self-hating, and I feel like the only ugly girl in mt BFFs (they are really pretty) and sad and lonely, like no guy would ever look at me.

But I get over those moments and save more tears for next shower.

Yeah, I'm pretty pathetic.. :'(


Martyna/Starbuster15✿◕ ‿ ◕✿ said...

Awwh, Lina! I bet your pretty! :) And no, your not pathetic!! And it went well, turns out he wanted to ask me out o_O He's really nice actually, everyone's jelous that we're dating now, Lolol. :L

LaLaLina said...

I'm lost.. He wanted to ask you out? If I were you, I would have this reacting: Aww.. You wanted to ask me out...? :') Well, of course my answer is: NO! GO FUCK YOURSELF.

Just saying what I would do. ^.^


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