So, she is one of those lowlife teens. She dresses in supper short shorts, puts makeup for school (SHE'S ONLY 12 (just like me)) and you can see her boobs because of her T-Shirts! She is horrible at school, and stupid!
I heard a gossip about her, that she puts those things (i don't know the name) in her bra to make the boobs bigger. Yes, well, i told her ex that (I know, she has a ex-bf while 12 years old), and he told her. And the gossip that i DID NOT start, she's blaming me!.
Today, when i wanted to explain to her, that I did not make that up, and that i'm not guilty, she said, who is? I knew i was my BFF's guilt, but i said: "I'm not naming anyone.."
She said: "I'm not one of your pathetic classmates , do you understand?"
-And she took her hand up so i knew the slap was coming, and since i have quick reflexes, i turned around so it didn't hurt at all. At all!. But then, she started threatening me she'll fight me.
-I'm not scared, she is half my EVERYTHING and i can bring her down with the snap of my finger, but I'm not stepping to her low lever, and unlike her, i never badmouthed her. I'M SCARED OF ONE THING NOW: I don't know what and who she hangs out with, (probably drug users and maniacs). She can send anyone. I'm afraid to go to school!
I'm scared, and i don't know what to do, i went to one of my teachers for help, and in front of her class (8 year olds, no one popular), I fell on he ground and started crying. I wasn't ashamed that I cried while wanting advice against bullies. And i pray to God, but I know I have t do something! WHAT? I can't end this with good, I don't want attention or anything, i just want to end this! THERE IS NO GOOD way to the end!
Advice? Before i cry again?
Tell me as soon as possible,
Lina
9 comments:
omgosh, Lina...i am so sorry, you DON'T DESERVE THIS. I don't know what you call them, but tell your guidance consealour or a teacher you trust. THEY will talk to her, and they will help the problem. What I suggest is to ignore her, and just say "okay" and "whatever" just try to keep it cool, and if you do have to fight her, if you have NO other choice, like you said, you'll hopefully be fine. Either way, you have to tell someone what she's doing to you, because this is not okay! PLEASE, i know I don't personally know you, or go to your school, but if you need help, talk to me, please. I know how this feels, I've been bullied and made fun of for years, and what you have to do is just get over it...not to sound brutal, but just say whatever, I'm perfect how I am. Good luck Lina, and don't let her win, get help. xoxo -kayci
Hahaa, what an idiot! Lina, you really don't deserve this, that kid is an IDIOT. Now, my advice is don't let ANYTHING bring you down. I get bullied everyday, but I'm used to it, so it doesn't bother me. All I do is just smart them out, now, heres the twist... When you smart them out, they always come up with something. You could TRY telling a teacher, it usually works. But I don't tell the teacher because I sort the problems out myself. But in this really serious case, tell the teacher, your mum and EVERYONE! Get people to go against her, she will feel bad. I also sometimes ignore, but that does nothing but make it worse, but by ignoring, you can make her think that she's going down but not getting attention. Or, if your a calm kid, just talk her through it. She might not let you talk her through it, so you COULD do what I did to someone like her, I said this to her 'LISTEN TO ME! What did I ever do to you? I just walk into school on a normal day, and what do you do? You trip me over? I understand I'm popular and stuff, but that doesn't even bother me! You just think your SO smart, amazing and clever by bullying me, well, think again. Because people like you don't deserve to be here.' Now thats WHAT I SAID. But you can say something else. Something different which I've tried which worked on me, is catching the footage of it, and showing your headteacher/principal etc. Thats clever. Just get a friend to catch footage of what she says, but secretley, and show the headmaster. Works 99% of the time for me.(:
You really don't deserve this Lina! Your a kind and good person. But remember, think if you've ever done ANYTHING to this person.
Well, thats my advice, The choice is yours though. Good luck, and hopefully she'll pay or get more mature. I love you Lina(As a friend obviously, Hahaa). Don't let ANYTHING, and I mean ANYTHING bring you down.[:
Xoxo Martyna, Idk wht you think of this looooong comment, but I get bullied nearly EVERYDAY, So I have a few techniques.(: Get well soon. xx
You can come to me if you have any bullying problems or friendship issues. I get bullied almost everyday mainly because of being popular and I guess cool? I don't think I'm popular. I'm normal, but TRUST me, don't think I'm stalking you, but I think I know what its like to be bullied. Your lucky your just involved in this one. I've been punched and kicked and... Okay I don't think you want to know the rest. Hopefully this fight will be fine, or just talk to someone that YOU feel understands you.(: I completely understand how you feel, but I've been in worse situations, so your lucky, dw, it'll hopefully be fine. :)
I DID do something to her. I heard the gossip, and i told it to the WRONG person. I clearly learnt the lesson, and regret it-but sh is CLEARLY over reacting. I mean, i can have her down and embarrassed with maximum 5 sentences, but I don't want to step to her low level. She is overreacting, and this happened to many people in school. e.x. Once the guys from my class kept asking my BFF is she puts cotton in her bra. She has to think of this as fun... Thanks guys, both! Thanks for the hep, I'll tel you what happens tomorrow, if i don't she sent assassins for me. :D:):(
Lina
I DID do something to her. I heard the gossip, and i told it to the WRONG person. I clearly learnt the lesson, and regret it-but sh is CLEARLY over reacting. I mean, i can have her down and embarrassed with maximum 5 sentences, but I don't want to step to her low level. She is overreacting, and this happened to many people in school. e.x. Once the guys from my class kept asking my BFF is she puts cotton in her bra. She has to think of this as fun... Thanks guys, both! Thanks for the hep, I'll tel you what happens tomorrow, if i don't she sent assassins for me. :D:):(
Lina
good luck! :)
Okay, i'm fine.. She did nothing. I ignored her. But she doesn't stop! She started a fight with one of my BFFs. She's crazy..
hmmm what did your teacher tell you? go to your FAVOURITE TEACHER, only she will understand! also, tell it to your parents!! They love you most, and i'm sure they will threaten her!
Ooh, she's smart. Not bosting, but If the fight was me and her, I would so win. But you really have probably no experience in bad fights, so your lucky. But hopefully she'll regret everything. Ignore her or say 'Did I hear something? Must've been my imagination..', That always gets people angry ;D Tell like EVERYONE that YOU know you trust. Your parents, favourite teacher etc.But here's the problem, she's starting a fight with you BFF now? Ooh great, such a trouble maker. I understand you care about your friend, but taking sides is not good, I've done this before, its done nothing but gotten me into more trouble then my BFF, But ohh well. If you care about your BFF so much, then its your choice. Good luck! Hopefully everything will be fine in the future.
xoxo Martyna.(:
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